Meghan Madness re: Kinks, via Medium.

Hi all,

There lots in the Medium link below to gorge your mind on.

A bit of sexy, a bit of psychology, a bit of looking inwards & outwards to understand where you are on the great escalator of your sexual life.

As a self proclaimed lover of all things kink, I dig any and all discussion on this subject. I really love the psychology side of sexuality and how the mind combines with your stage of sexual growth and understanding.

We are all different and at different stages in our lives, sexual development and awareness and if you are interested in walking this road it pays to understand as many sides of your sexy shape before you decide to open up to a prospective partner in kinky crime.

Are you a sexy Pentagon, a simple but efficient circle, a crazy deep octagon or something else entirely?

Anyhoo, Meghan nails it to the mast below (way better than me) so I highly recommend you click through and if you aren’t satiated after this, read some more of her stuff… it’s good 😛

https://link.medium.com/IAP15wA7hpb

Lastly, as I always say, Medium is a subscription service and a bloody good one at that. Please grab yourself a subscription if it’s right for you at this time and blow your mind on any and all subjects on the site.

Cheers

AES

Red Hot Chili Peppers – Sir Psycho Sexy

Only half of US adolescents receive adequate sex education — and Black and Hispanic youth are especially left behind.

Hi all,

I have spoken at length about sex education on this blog with the aim of trying to assist ongoing education in this important area of human development in my small way.

I was though saddened to read this just now as reported in Psypost and written by Beth Ellwood;

https://www.psypost.org/2022/03/only-half-of-us-adolescents-receive-adequate-sex-education-and-black-and-hispanic-youth-are-especially-left-behind-62664

This study says that sex education was better 25 years ago. Wow!

So why is that? Is this the pendulum of conservatism showing its hand or religion or both. Or is this something else altogether?

I am confused and genuinely interested in reading the article again and properly this time to see what has influenced this ordinary result.

If you read this article and have an opinion on it, please add a comment as I would like to understand this research and it subsequent results better.

BTW – here’s a link to the Reddit feed I found this article in…

https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/t4z38e/only_half_of_us_adolescents_receive_adequate_sex

Cheers

AES

I confronted my daughter’s boyfriend – but I was really confronting myself, via The Guardian Aust.

Hi all,


I loved this read and maybe you will find something in it also?

In my opinion, we men have a long way to travel to find gender balance and restore and reset the world that we have collectively steered towards catastrophe.

This read alludes to that journey and why it is so important to get on that track as soon as each of us can.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2020/oct/19/i-confronted-my-daughters-boyfriend-but-i-was-really-confronting-myself?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Other

Please have a read if you have a few minutes.

Merry Christmas all,

AES

Behind Closed Doors – via 3CR Melbourne.

Hi all,

I have been interested in the subject and practice of sex work for some time now and was struggling a little with where I sat on it prior to reading about the podcast linked below and deciding to listen to it.

I have used sex workers in the past but done so without any thought whatsover for their lot in life. And I have written posts about sex work and prostitution in the past here, here and here all of which were part of the journey to this time and place.  Note that these links are from my oldest thoughts to the newest thoughts and there are a few others in the mix if you are dedicated also.

Have I evolved? That is what I would like to look at briefly in this post.

To add a little more context, I think things really started to change for me when I tried taxi driving for a while.

Taking boozed up clients to the various brothels around town was quite the experience. Sometimes I was just like the sex workers and in it just for the cash, never thinking another thing about it but sometimes I had an absolute pig in the car and damn I felt for the woman whom would have him in her life for a short period of time.

But anyway, that was the past. Right now I am listening to a podcast on 3CR with Victorian Senator Fiona Patten discussing sex work and the potential decriminalisation of sex work in the State of Victoria.

And honestly, she is making sense and I feel like I am finally finding some peace with this subject.

Please have a listen to the pod and I hope you get something out of it.

It’s been a very long journey for me to get to this point but I get that we need to evolve on this subject and that sex can be a job that anyone can do.

We really must get to a better place on this subject. There is far too much stigma and far to much regulation and darkness surrounding this subject.

So I recommend that we collectively open the bloody curtains and let some light in so we can disenfect the language and thinking around the oldest profession in the world for once and for all.

Anyway, I am going to keep reading anything worthwhile that I can get my hands on around this fascinating subject and will publish something further in due course that adds detail to this new found direction for me on this subject.

Cheers

AES

Mr Mister – Control

“Bedding The Coffee Shop Girl”

Hi all,

I absolutely loved reading this.
Beth tells a great and wonderfully sexy story about two women flirting and then fucking each other.

“Bedding The Coffee Shop Girl” by Beth Singleton https://link.medium.com/OxBGnkbRQ6

I love good erotica like this and I hope you will enjoy it also.

Medium is a paid site so you can’t read this without joining.  I would contend though that the few bucks it will cost you to subscribe to read genius like this is very much worth it.

AES

Can I have sex? A guide to intimacy during the coronavirus outbreak

Can I have sex? A guide to intimacy during the coronavirus outbreak

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/mar/18/can-i-have-sex-a-guide-to-intimacy-during-the-coronavirus-outbreak?

Hi all,

Was thinking about this in light of COVID-19.

How will sex workers vet clients and then make a dollar?

If you can answer this, please share it back.

Otherwise I wish you well on this journey that we all have to take in 2020.

Be safe & stay as happy as you can.

AES

Harvey Weinstein found guilty of rape at New York trial.

Harvey Weinstein found guilty of rape at New York trial (via Guardian Australia).

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2020/feb/24/harvey-weinstein-guilty-trial-charges-verdict?

But he’s innocent…, or at least that is how Harv’ views things.

I am glad this went down the way it did as it’s a good precedent for the future.

As I understand it, he will appeal and I guess we will just have to wait and see what becomes of that.

Things have needed to change for a long time and this is but a chunk of a very large patriarchal iceberg that needs to be blown to bits IMHO.

Whatever happens, don’t count your chickens yet as women are still being murdered, hospitalised and abused every day in some part of the world just for being born a woman.

There are still many miles to go.

AES

‘If you’re going to watch porn, know it’s not real’: meet Britain’s sex-positive influencers

Hi all,

This is a really good article and it certainly makes me feel optimism for future generations.

I think it is yet another piece of the puzzle that will ultimately lead to a better society one day where people will better understand the breadth of possibilities out there and can pick and choose without as much bias & stigma as in the present day.

I hope you get a gem or two from it.

AES

‘If you’re going to watch porn, know it’s not real’: meet Britain’s sex-positive influencers

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/feb/08/porn-not-real-sex-positive-educators-influencers-breaking-taboos?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_WordPress

How we live together: the separated couple who share a home

How we live together: the separated couple who share a home

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/sep/21/how-we-live-together-separated-but-sharing-house

Hi all,

This is really interesting IMHO.

From what I know about relationship separations which I will admit never went past pain for both parties, they seem to me to be the exception rather than the rule.

But they need to be congratulated for thinking of their daughter as the priority.

Have a read and I hope this opens your mind a little more as it did for me.

AES

Ethical porn — does it exist and who makes it? – via ABC

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-12-21/ethical-porn-does-it-exist-and-where-do-you-find-it/8091266

Another interesting one for those in the fap-brigade.

Getting your pornography ethically. I am a fan.

Just need to get around to setting up accounts etc. now and hopefully that will be one of the last times I visit the so called free “sites”.

“TANSTAAFL”

AES

Ex-porn star Mia Khalifa wants to move on with her life. Why won’t we let her?

Here’s a couple of articles on the hipocrisy and patriarchal shitfight that is pornography.

Don’t get me wrong, I love porn but I think it’s high time I started to look for ethical pornography rather than free stuff as clearly I am part of the problem.

Mia deserves another chance and frankly I hope she gets it.

AES

Ex-porn star Mia Khalifa wants to move on with her life. Why won’t we let her?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/aug/14/ex-porn-star-mia-khalifa-life-internet-x-rated-industry?

Why are people silent about the abuses and exploitation in porn?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/aug/15/why-are-people-silent-about-the-abuses-and-exploitation-in-porn?

I Disagree With This.

Why, you may ask?

Let’s explore the statement in question shall we.

“Men are born to pursue women”.

But are we?

For my 1cents worth, I think this is utter garbage.

Furthermore, I think this statement and the justification following it is a relic of history even now, and will continue to erode further the more gender equal we get.

#justsayin

Keep loving like there is no tomorrow.

AES