Came across this thread on Reddit and found it interesting.
I have written about jealousy before and frankly can’t admit to knowing any more about or indeed having any more or less control over it than anyone else.
I am however, a student of the mind and as it is our largest sexual organ and primarily the place where jealousy will show itself from I had to repost this thread here.
Please have a read of the article and as much of the thread as you can manage (I got a few scrolls in) and if you want to discuss this important emotion as related to sexuality, please add a comment.
I would love to read other people’s take on it.
The Gun Blossoms – Hey Jealousy
There lots in the Medium link below to gorge your mind on.
A bit of sexy, a bit of psychology, a bit of looking inwards & outwards to understand where you are on the great escalator of your sexual life.
As a self proclaimed lover of all things kink, I dig any and all discussion on this subject. I really love the psychology side of sexuality and how the mind combines with your stage of sexual growth and understanding.
We are all different and at different stages in our lives, sexual development and awareness and if you are interested in walking this road it pays to understand as many sides of your sexy shape before you decide to open up to a prospective partner in kinky crime.
Are you a sexy Pentagon, a simple but efficient circle, a crazy deep octagon or something else entirely?
Anyhoo, Meghan nails it to the mast below (way better than me) so I highly recommend you click through and if you aren’t satiated after this, read some more of her stuff… it’s good 😛
Lastly, as I always say, Medium is a subscription service and a bloody good one at that. Please grab yourself a subscription if it’s right for you at this time and blow your mind on any and all subjects on the site.
Red Hot Chili Peppers – Sir Psycho Sexy
This looks interesting.
It has a great show motto for a start ” Sex is the highway to health” but whilst this is a strong sentence well worth exploring further in its own right, the show – Lust – looks really interesting itself.
Please have a look if it’s something that interests you. I will definitely be having a look for it and hope that it shows on SBS here in Australia because I have interest in another bloody streaming subscription.
Anyway, that’s me for this short & sweet post.
I have spoken at length about sex education on this blog with the aim of trying to assist ongoing education in this important area of human development in my small way.
I was though saddened to read this just now as reported in Psypost and written by Beth Ellwood;
This study says that sex education was better 25 years ago. Wow!
So why is that? Is this the pendulum of conservatism showing its hand or religion or both. Or is this something else altogether?
I am confused and genuinely interested in reading the article again and properly this time to see what has influenced this ordinary result.
If you read this article and have an opinion on it, please add a comment as I would like to understand this research and it subsequent results better.
BTW – here’s a link to the Reddit feed I found this article in…
The link below is a heavy viewing and more great short film from Dust.
It’s heavy but it’s good, and well worth a look IMHO. It’s about a couple who have drifted apart. The male is the protagonist and clearly the main instigator of the rift.
But as anyone who knows anything about relationships, there’s always two to blame
Seriously, check this out. I am stoked that Dust popped into my YT feed.
It’s been a great journey thus far and I look forward to many more interesting sci-fi takes on all things human sexuality & relationships.
This is a bit of interesting…
I highly recommend that you read the article below as there’s a lot to process in it. Coco Khan has done a fantastic job in listening to this couple and doing them justice in the article.
Essentially, Lacey & Flynn are putting themselves out there via podcast to talk about all things on sex and their relationship. Apparently they actually have sex during the podcast!
I have read the article a couple of times and whilst I applaud them both in taking on a massive subject such as sex, it’s probably not a pod I could see myself listening to.
Why? Well I think the older I get the less interested I am in sex with another human. It’s hard work especially navigating the emotional side that one must confront if you want more than a one night stand.
I may though check out an episode or two from Flynn where he is talking about male sexuality. That is something I definitely relate to at present
All that said though, this pod is recommended if you have the energy and are willing to put yourself out there (in a more difficult time than usual).
My thanks to Coco for this article. It’s a good read and I hope you get something out of it.
Bjork – Big Time Sensuality
Libido…the main attraction at all of our respective showgrounds. The proverbial rollercoaster!
Not a day goes by (as a male) where I not up and/or down in regards to this bodily function, especially now as I get older. One upon a time I could spank the monkey four times a day, sleep for 8 hours and repeat without an issue.
Now, it’s like once a day at best. And frankly I am completely fine with that. Because for once in my life I can occasionally break that life-cycle and save up that precious orgasm so it’s volcanic when I reach climax. Damn…that be some good times!
Dipsea – being the amazing sex positive company that it is, have a good explainer on libido which you will find at the link. It’s worth a few minutes of your time if this is something that interests you. I found the article an enjoyable read.
The main takeaway for me is that libido is something that we should never ever stress about. There’s enough in this life already to stress about, and then some.
And I really liked the self-care advice regards masturbation. I hold strong opinions on masturbation as a tool that can really keep you on a level and it’s great for a good nights sleep also.
Anyhoo, that’s me for this short and sweet post.
Have a great Christmas or however you celebrate the season and I will see you back here for another year of stepping ever so gently through the minefield that is human sexuality.
Eartha Kitt – Santa Baby
Update: this post has gone a bit crazy so it’s high time I mentioned the author.
Linked article by: Alexandra Jones.
A good’n below tis…(translates as there is a good post below).
Found this on The Guardian Australia and after reading it, I felt there was some good stuff in the article that needed to be further shared.
At 50 years of age, I completely get the need for quality sex. 34 years in training surely is enough time to dot your i’s and cross your t’s on this important human activity.
I enjoyed lots about this article, especially the mind and how important it is, being present and also opening your mind to all the possibilities that intimacy offers.
Anyway, as always, if human sexuality is your bag (baby – Mr Austin Powers), then this article above will be a moth to a flame moment for you, and I will be the other moth circling the light totally engaged with it also.
And I promise to say hi as we dance around it, wings outstretched, totally enamoured by its beauty.
AES (for N’s Oma)
Donna Summer – Love To Love You Baby
Dan Savage ROCKS!
He has single-handedly shown us how to build robust walls to protect those of us grasping at any one time with the many issues that make up human sexuality, against the conservative tide that seeks to erode sexuality to a lights off under the covers 5-minute wham-bam, thankyou ma’am exercise.
I used to read his column back in the day and always looked up to him as someone who wasn’t afraid to speak a truth that was being hushed daily whack-a-mole style by way too many blinkered fools.
I loved reading this article and I hope you do too.
He is a fantastic human being and I thank him for his contribution to humanity and sexuality.
How good are the Norwegians?
In my mind, utterly brilliant. Now lets contrast that with conservative Australia.
OMG…shit would get real for our public broadcaster if they made and distributed something like this. I can just imagine the hoo-haa that Murdoch media (the city papers, SKY, city radio stations (AM) etc.) would drum up.
That said SBS Australia is known for its risque programming so maybe there is some hope there after all.
Anyway, I am just glad someone is talking about sexuality as that’s the only way we move forward as a species.
I came across this sex positive article in The Guardian and had to share it.
I love that this subject is being written about in tbe mainstream media.
The prudes can all go and jump off a jetty for all I care.
I want to see more of this.
Many thanks to the journo who researched and penned it and the subby for supporting stories like this.
I hope you click on through…
This looks like another great read on the subject of subjects.
I am off to find this book now and I hope after you have had a look at the link above, you might also.
Education is key to us finding real gender balance.
I came across this article today and I dug it and wanted to share.
Pleasure is one of the great loves of my life, so yes I think its fair to say I may just qualify as a hedonist.
Please have a read and I hope you enjoy it also.
Clicked on this link for shitz ‘n gigs this morning and I ended up really liking the article.
I liked that Caitlin explained the kinks and how they made her feel and I loved the positivity of the article.
And the bonus was that I got to understand another person’s perspective in regards to these acts.
“6 Kinks I Didn’t Think I’d Like” by Caitlin Jill Anders https://link.medium.com/8MIMOCS25ab
All in all it was another great Medium read.
Please click on the link if you are intrigued but know that you will need a subscription to do so.
I cant speak highly enough of the diversity of opinions on the site. It’s a great way to engage with various topics at your own pace and way better than a newspaper IMHO.
Anyway, please enjoy.
I apologise in advance for the blue language coming your way throughout this post, but…
My understanding of the elephant in the room, that being the patriarchal control of female bodies just took jump forward at light speed.
Please read and digest this statement as an entree for your mind fuck main course coming later on;
“The first comprehensive anatomical study of the clitoris was led by O’Connell and published in 1998“.
What the fucking fuck!
I would like to think of myself as better read than the average man on sex and have definitely read little bits over the years alluding to the fact that men have been controlling women’s bodies and thus their sexuality for a long time over the past 10 or more years, but I had no idea about this truth.
Penises, and ball-sack’s have been in art and medicine for bloody eons.
I am sitting here a tad flabbergasted at the moment.
So, if you ever wondered about and thought on men & women as I am want to do (probs way too much), I very much hope this joins a dot or three for you like it has done for me.
The summary for mine is that all men really need to take long hard look.
1998…fuck me. THAT IS INSANE.
BTW…thanks to the Guardian for this wonderful article.