I have seen this change coming for a while so believe me when I say that having a child as a single parent or as a same-sex couple is going to be the next big thing for the matriarchy.
COVID-19 pandemic-fuelled IVF baby boom creating ‘sperm drought’ across Australia – ABC News via @inkl https://inkl.com/a/QJxnvZiLmbk
The world is clearly changing and women are slowly winning battles that will enable them to be genuine equals against the dominant gender (as things always should have been in humanity from the start but never were).
So mark my words that I definitely can see a time in the next 10 years or so when some governments swing their policies to support this now viable option in order to keep births at a sustainable replacement rate.
But where there are winners, there will also be losers and one winner from the loser category (see what I did there!) might be the incel groups who will keep growing as women tread their own path either alone or with another woman rather than a man.
As always, it makes for interesting times and I will definitely be writing more about this so if you have gotten this far, please drop by again as…
Shit’s about to get real for the patriarchy!
Mr Mister, Something Real
I read these columns every now and then and always enjoy them.
This one was another classic date night with two interesting people meeting each other in public for the first time.
The parts of the column I find really interesting, actually the questions I find interesting are;
1. What did you talk about?
I like this question because I havent yet seen a set of answers that align between both people. That I find really interesting.
Note: that this could be some selective editing to?
2. Marks out of 10?
And this because who doesnt enjoy seeing some potential for happiness being created.
These two people gave each other a 10 and I really hope those numbers and the general vibe we the reader gets from the column means that these two people will catch up again.
Van Halen, Love Walks In.
This is brilliant news and I look forward to reading more on and about the decision over the next few weeks so I can break it down further on this blog.
The Police, Roxanne
Hi again all,
You don’t have to be Einstein to understand that the male gender has been responsible for so much pain and suffering towards women since time immortal.
Just try this. As an exercise in the comprehension of this statement take the next 10-15 seconds and think about the amount of times you have heard about men behaving badly over the past 5-10 years.
And I dont mean to be awful, but if you didn’t get to five as a minimum, you haven’t been paying attention.
In getting down from my soap-box now I will admit that I kinda understand if you couldnt recall many as I largely switch off now also.
There’s just too many.
This list above was last updated 18 months ago…and as far as I can see is only US men!!
Then there’s the now departed Mr Epstein & Ms Maxwell. That’s a whole other can of worms!
And why Ghislane shared the book…we may never know?
And what drives this behaviour???
I genuinely dont know but I have said for a long time that testosterone, the male sex hormone clearly needs to be understood better…by everyone.
I think its fair to say that most men including yours truly only barely understands it’s power.
One thought (read potential solution) I have entertained for a while would be for each gender to wear patches containing the opposite sex’s hormone for a short time at the appropriate time during their development (if indeed there is an appropriate time as each gender develops?).
I am no scientist but just maybe this would help the level of understanding and in doing so assist us to reduce the incidence of harassment, associated sex crimes and general bastardry we impart on women as we men grow up.
Clearly though, we need to keep moving forward on this massive problem that potentially ends in a similar way to that reported in my last post.
And that, dear readers is a bloody sad & sorry situation.
WE CAN AND MUST DO BETTER.
I just came across this article and it really resonated with me.
I warn you, it’s bloody sad but please have a read of it at the link below and then make up your own mind.
Valerie Bacot: French woman who murdered her rapist husband walks free from court.
The Telegraph via @inkl https://inkl.com/a/bddkMAILBMv
For my one cents worth, this is yet another story in a recent chapter of an old and long book on patriachal control that really needs more support from the masses to enable it to cut through and be heard in our centres of power.
That support will empower our politicians to move on it and make some real forward progress on gender relations.
Without that support and overall understanding of what is at stake here from the general public, women will continue to suffer at the hands of men as they have for far too long now.
Things need to change and the only way this happens is through legislation and thus law.
It’s just not good enough for even one woman (first world Australian context) to suffer at the hands of a man in 2021.
Please read up on this subject and if you also feel that change is needed, then please seek out the political party at the next election that has policies which will move us forward and give them your vote.
This must stop.
Till It Happens To You, Lady Gaga
How good are the Norwegians?
In my mind, utterly brilliant. Now lets contrast that with conservative Australia.
OMG…shit would get real for our public broadcaster if they made and distributed something like this. I can just imagine the hoo-haa that Murdoch media (the city papers, SKY, city radio stations (AM) etc.) would drum up.
That said SBS Australia is known for its risque programming so maybe there is some hope there after all.
Anyway, I am just glad someone is talking about sexuality as that’s the only way we move forward as a species.
I had moved away from poly for a few reasons but then tonight I read this article by Thomas and I think I need to revisit The Ethical Slut soon for a refresh.
Back in the day I used to think polyamory was the next big thing but that time came & went (in Australia specifically) with the default in marriage staying the course as the default long-term relationship option.
Polyamory isnt dead yet though and I really hope it hangs around because I feel its time will come again as both genders methodically find solutions to problems that have and still constrain gender balance.
I see traditional marriage as big supporter of gender inequality but that said I am sure there are many great examples of marriage that show it in a better light.
Anyway, this article will provide you with a small window into the world of the polyamourous via one of the many emotional mines on the minefield of love that can stop a polyamourous relationship in its tracks.
Compersion; is defined in the Urban Dictionary as:
“A feeling of joy when a loved one invests in and takes pleasure from another romantic or sexual relationship
Thomas discusses compersion and in doing so will take you in a journey about commitment, patience and empathy for your significant other.
Anyhoo, I hope you click through (see my p.s. below first) and until next time peeps, keep living & loving like there’s no tomorrow.
Here’s a bit of QOTSA to get you in a loving mood.I wanna make it wit chu
p.s. Medium is a subscriber based site so you are going to have to cough up some cash to read the main link.
I reckon its completely worth it as Medium is chock full of brainy goodness, but that’s your call.
Yes, yes, yes, yes…more…more…
give me more…
not sex, but education!
This young woman is bloody amazing IMHO. She has the potential to push a stalled agenda along in a way it hasnt been for years.
That said, I doubt that we will see anything from the PM, because he’s clearly all about short termism and holding onto the prime ministership.
And politics and ideology unfortunately gets in the way of so many great ideas and movements but you know, it never totally snuffs out these things.
They live on until the time is right and those changes can proceed without the largely pathetic barriers and excuses that are made by selfish people who hold power and cant or won’t get their collective heads around KAIZEN for our society.
Anyway, FWIW, I look forward to hearing and seeing Chanel continue to talk about this subject widely as that opens doors and brings people into the room who have wanted to be part of this conversation who will add their voices to the fray and keep the conversation moving.
Its all very exciting because I have been raving about sex education for the past 8 or more years.
We might actually get somewhere!
I have used this track before but I just love it, so here’s another run…
Tears For Fears, Change
I came across this sex positive article in The Guardian and had to share it.
I love that this subject is being written about in tbe mainstream media.
The prudes can all go and jump off a jetty for all I care.
I want to see more of this.
Many thanks to the journo who researched and penned it and the subby for supporting stories like this.
I hope you click on through…
This looks like another great read on the subject of subjects.
I am off to find this book now and I hope after you have had a look at the link above, you might also.
Education is key to us finding real gender balance.
I came across this article today and I dug it and wanted to share.
Pleasure is one of the great loves of my life, so yes I think its fair to say I may just qualify as a hedonist.
Please have a read and I hope you enjoy it also.
Here’s a article that I found in Guardian Australia this morning as written by the author from her upcoming book:
Self Contained: Scenes From A Single Life by Emma John.
I really enjoyed this article. I am not a single woman but have danced around many of the subjects discussed in this article over a number of years because I feel that all the points presented are very important for both genders across the board.
The message that I have tried to communicate is that marriage shouldn’t be the only option in our lives. I strongly believe in this sentence.
And this article and I gather Emma’s book goes deeper to make this point albeit as a woman who understands the scope of the debate much better than I can and all the factors involved.
Please have a read of the article if this is something you think about on occasion. Its really good food for thought.
Its also a subject poignant at the moment as the current Australian conservative government and their friends in supporting organisations seek to try on a proposal for people to stay in relationships for two years after trouble makes itself known.
This in my opinion is a bridge too far and it will be interesting if they seek to give it oxygen in this term of government.
Anyway, that’s me for this one.
Cyndi L – Speaking Truth
This is a good read IMHO.
Michelle opens up about pornography and how it has affected her.
And I can see how Women can feel like this, living and existing in a highly sexualized world where Women have to compete against a patriarchal regime that seeks to control them and their sexuality at every drop of the hat.
Thankfully, times are a changin and those trickle changes will continue to bring balance to the gender spectrum as the years go by.
Please have a read of this link above (and support writers like Michelle) if you are interested in my primer noting that Medium is a paid subscription site.
I have barely touched on this massive subject with this post but maybe the subject interests you and you will dig deeper because to do so will take you on a great journey.
A journey that I hope makes our world a better place for all one day in the future.
“Democracy is and will always be, a work in progress”.
I loved this read and maybe you will find something in it also?
In my opinion, we men have a long way to travel to find gender balance and restore and reset the world that we have collectively steered towards catastrophe.
This read alludes to that journey and why it is so important to get on that track as soon as each of us can.
Please have a read if you have a few minutes.
Merry Christmas all,
Clicked on this link for shitz ‘n gigs this morning and I ended up really liking the article.
I liked that Caitlin explained the kinks and how they made her feel and I loved the positivity of the article.
And the bonus was that I got to understand another person’s perspective in regards to these acts.
“6 Kinks I Didn’t Think I’d Like” by Caitlin Jill Anders https://link.medium.com/8MIMOCS25ab
All in all it was another great Medium read.
Please click on the link if you are intrigued but know that you will need a subscription to do so.
I cant speak highly enough of the diversity of opinions on the site. It’s a great way to engage with various topics at your own pace and way better than a newspaper IMHO.
Anyway, please enjoy.