Month: April 2020

“What It Means When a Woman Says She Has a High Sex Drive”

Hi all,

Still absolutely loving Medium.  There are so many wonderfully written articles on there, I feel bombarded with choice.

As for my love of the complex construct that is human sexuality, there’s a few writers on Medium whose writing I absolutely love and which gravitates with me usually after just a couple of sentences.

This article is another one.  Yael writes about female sexual energy and how it is similar but also very different to male sexual energy.

I have experienced this many times over the years and frankly still can’t manage to find consensus with it.

“What It Means When a Woman Says She Has a High Sex Drive” by Yael Wolfe https://link.medium.com/kQA3NQ2qZ5

But “It is, what it is” and so whilst this gender difference confounds and frustrates me I am slowly getting to a point where I no longer care and as such prefer to gravitate as a mandate to some quiet time with the Fleshlight and good lube.

Anyway, please consider clicking the link and maybe subscribing to this excellent site chock full of anything and everything you have ever wanted to know more about.

I will be a Medium subscriber for sometime to come I feel.

Cheers
AES

“Why Do Men Want to Have Sex With Women?”

Hi all,

Another great Medium post for y’all.

Christine pretty much nails the confusion I feel in wanting but never finding or accessing regular healthy sex.

I read something like this many years ago. A woman was prescribed Testosterone to help her with a medical condition and not long after taking it started to feel what I and most if not all  other men feel on a daily basis.

I really wish I had kept that article and additionally would love if kids were taught this fact in school.

It might also actually help us reverse the selection she mentions that has women still striving for equality as I write this and whom are likely to be on that road for sometime to come yet.

Actually, I wouldn’t be surprised if they do this already in Iceland.  See my post “Iceland, I Love You (even more now)!” for further reading.

Anyway, I hope you have a read of Christine’s post and it helps you understand the dance we all cut a merry little jig too a little more.

Cheers
AES

“Why Do Men Want to Have Sex With Women?” by Christine Stevens https://link.medium.com/rXEwgGNnP5

https://youtu.be/qNM6IuA87eM

“Why Sex With a 50 Year Old Was The Best Sex I’ve Ever Had”, via Medium.com

Hi all,

I have found some really great articles on Medium, one or two which I have already shared and now this one which I really enjoyed also.

It’s a subscription site so I apologise in advance for slinging you something that you may not be able to read without a subscription, but I wouldn’t do it unless they weren’t great and well written articles.

“Why Sex With a 50 Year Old Was The Best Sex I’ve Ever Had” by Matilda Swinney https://link.medium.com/LrBZwwXuF5

This one is different to the last but with a similar theme of the older male using his experience in sexual situations to the benefit of both parties.

Anyway, I hope you get a kick out of this one and maybe learn something from  what I consider another great Medium article.

Rest assured I will share more over the coming months.

AES

https://youtu.be/04-9Gv0FMLg

“The Ultimate Threesome is All in the Mind”

Hi all,

I really enjoyed this article.
It connected with me like nothing ever has in this space.

BDSM is something that doesn’t fit with my personality but maybe I need to find some consensus with it going forward?

“The Ultimate Threesome is All in the Mind” by Steve Halsall https://link.medium.com/kqsscuFwv5

Please have a read and I hope it takes you on a similar journey too.

Be thoughtful peeps and the good lovin will flow.

AES

https://youtu.be/wHuXpWSNa-8

Polyamory in a pandemic: who do you quarantine with when you’re not monogamous?

Hi all,

Polyamory ain’t dead yet.  Yeehaw!

My great hope is that over time it will find it’s place within society as a viable relationship option for those that value honesty and integrity in their partners.

And I think it will as women slowly become true equals within society and the patriarchy is pushed back into a place that sees it enhancing our species rather than seeking to control it.


Anyhoo, have a read of the article  below and hit me up with a comment if you have thoughts you want to share.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2020/apr/01/polyamory-quarantine-coronavirus-pandemic

Till then though.
Keep living & loving (yourself only at this time please).

AES