At the local supermarket today with my door open just about to jump out when two young men crossed in front of the car…
The boy in front said “(I didn’t catch the boy’s name) said he fucked her in the arse…, don’t know if I believe him though”
These boys were roughly 15 or 16 years of age and I think I am assuming correctly that they don’t have a great deal of respect for women at that age based on how the statement came out of his mouth.
Makes you wonder, at least it does with me….What sexual education had this boy and his mate have received to be speaking about a female in that manner at that age”
Having said that, I wasn’t any better. I know I spoke about female’s in that manner because it was cool and I desired the adoration that the cool kids received.
It never really stuck with me though because my mum taught me better than that thankfully.
This is why Australian men need education about their sexuality. We are so backwards barely coming forward on this issue and I am sick of it. I hear it at work from the boys that I work with and it shits me up the wall but I don’t take a stand for fear of being outed completely like the church going member of the crew is. He has copped it bad and it is so wrong but the boss just stands by and lets it happen.
I think I am at about a count of 10 women thus far whom I have got to know online but when I drop the “P” word everything goes to shit.
I am doing the responsible thing and searching for women amongst those with a little extra baggage and yet even with that as an extra barrier to possible intimacy they are running for the hills on mention of the word.
Just had another one now bolt off on me when I stated that in time I would like to know 2-3 wonderful poly oriented women who are able to share quality time with me as our schedules permit loving each other as best we can, growing old and helping each other where we can.
I guess it just goes to show how utterly socially programmed women are, and a lot of men too, but I would argue that women are in the greater numbers here. What say you?
It is bloody frustrating I can tell you in that I have finally found a lifestyle that I think I fit, in that I really believe that I was put on this earth to love more than one person, but I cant find anyone to love or have love me!
I will persevere though because they are out there just as I was frustrated with monogamy but haven’t made the jump to read a book or go online and research the lifestyle as yet.
Patience will win this one.
Updated July 2019.
Been following this drama from time to time and I just want to say this,
If even the small amount of detail that has made it to the mainstream media does not resoundingly support the need for better sexual education for young Men and Women preferably whilst at school then I wonder where your head actually is at?
These articles are easy to search for so do yourself a favour and view yet another version of the canyon between Men and Women which will never decrease unless we act in the interests of future generations and implement a quality curricula of sexual education covering all matter of topics as related to human sexuality.
Let’s please get serious on this issue. Sex must come out of the closet and just become the NORMAL HUMAN FUNCTION it is.
Time is of the essence if we are to actually evolve and in doing so, save lives.
But then again, maybe no one really wants too?
I have written one blog on this subject and frankly I was happy with that.
Then, this morning there is this in The Age, so I thought I would throw my two cents worth in.
Overall, I am happy that more is being done to reduce this behaviour but for me it is just another reactive measure that might stop another 2-3% of this problem rearing its ugly head in the future as far as I am concerned.
Internet savvy paedophiles will always be one step ahead just like hackers are and I doubt there will many winners.
Sorry to be Mr Negative but really I hope those of you who read this blog can understand my take on this.
Until there comes a time where we can all get over ourselves and have a meaningful debate on our individual and collective sexuality we aren’t going to evolve as a species.
I cant see this happening in my lifetime unfortunately and thus I guess “reactive” and semi-offensive policing measures are all we have at our disposal at this time.
Its bloody sad that an awful lot of us are incredibly embarrassed by our bits and the sexual thoughts that we think.
I long for a day where people can just fess up to what they are thinking and then help could be offered to bring them back to society rather than being loners who have to hide away their sexuality/sexual psychology.
Being open and honest about sexuality is so refreshing and just frees up so much of your mind for other thoughts.
Anyway, that is my offload for this Sunday morning in the land of the embarrassed.