OK…here is a bit of a rough and ready rundown on online porn as I see it.
GOOD: I love to see women in full sexual arousal and for mine you usually find that in amateur sex scenes filmed on the household camera with low light, ordinary sound and not so great vision but all in all is well worth it for the sexual energy that is displayed by WILLING and genuinely aroused participants.
BAD: I rarely watch anything that is fancily produced with the exception of I Feel Myself which is brilliantly and tastefully filmed and is worth every cent that you will pay to watch it.
For mine, in mainstream porn the women are acting aroused and are in it for the cash only which is only giving more ammunition to those who want to see porn vanish from the human map of sexuality. Having said all this about mainstream porn there are a lot of cross-over’s such as the bangbus series and MILF stuff in which they (the producers/directors) try to make it seem all amateur and hot but really it is just lower level porn stars doing the mum thing or the university student at the bus stop etc. Not my thing at all, but it might be your thing?
BAD: I do hate it that it seems accepted in mainstream porn for the woman to be fucked relentlessly and then like a dog beg for a load on the face or in the mouth. It seems to be a standard script. No wonder a lot of women are turned off by porn. That is boring, scripted crap.
Another thing I hate whilst we are on the subject of semen is when you see a man come and then put his cock back inside the woman….poor form IMHO. (You don’t see it as much as you did in the 70’s and 80’s but it is still around) BE RESPONSIBLE WITH YOUR SPERM!
GOOD: I also have a thing for sex outdoors or quickies as you find occasionally surfing porn. There have been many memorable orgasms had by this bloke when watching a male and female get stuck straight into some hot sex “au naturale” and move together until orgasm.
BAD: What is it with piss-poor condom use in porn?
I want to see more condoms used and I want to see it now. Men need to sort their shit out on this issue as it is starting to piss me off. On the subject of women not getting looked after equally ie: cunnilingus, what is it with the scripted mainstream shit, a lot of it anyway but maybe it has changed where the male expects fellatio for 15 minutes but goes down on the female for 2 minutes…WTF?
GOOD: I like to watch different stuff. Some of it grosses me out but there is all sorts of odd stuff which only confirms my 101 or more different flavours of sex point. As a few examples, just this morning I have watched a women enjoy sitting on a lava lamp (maybe she got off on the heat as well?). There was also a link of a woman taking a small fire-extinguisher inside her….whoa! (probably 150mm in diameter), a guy taking a massive dildo in the bum and transexual sex. Human sexuality never ceases to amaze me.
GOOD: I love to see women and their take on sex. An example is the few clips of young legal women masturbating in bed while their brother looks on? They do all the talking in these clips and it is pretty hot I can tell you. THERE IS NOTHING BETTER THAN HEARING A WOMAN TALK DIRTY IMHO! Same goes for the link above in the IFeelMyself videos where young women talk about their fantasies and masturbate etc….fantastic, MORE MORE!
BAD: I don’t like watching young people having exploitative sex. An example is a Max Hardcore (I think?) clip that was on the site I check out regularly which was between a man and a very young looking but probably still barely legal girl. I clicked on it and watched it for about 10 seconds before killing it because I was pissed off that it was on the site. It had disappeared off the feed in the morning so their must have been some complaints over night? Children need access to sexual education and parents who can be open and honest about sexuality instead of exploitation so they can be eased into adult sexuality but there is a whole lot of people out there who don’t want that to happen and that is bloody sad.
In summary there is plenty not to like about online porn but it does a whole lot of good too.
This is where I think the religious right and some others lose the plot. Sexual freedom is something I argue should be mandatory for all so you can choose your own path after learning about all the different flavours of sexuality.
Porn brings that knowledge I would argue and whilst it needs cleaning up in a lot of areas that is achievable if we band together put pressure on those parts of the industry that stuff it up
Porn gave me a sexual education where none was offered by my parents and by the state. If it can help one boy become a man it can do it for a whole lot more and especially so if those who depose sexual education by the state want to continue their protest in stopping/limiting sexual education in schools.
Lastly, please engage me in debate via a comment or three on porn. I look forward to reading where you are at on it.
AES
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