Ok, here goes.
For anal stimulation/pleasure I am using this currently. I give you the Njoy Fun Wand

I have found that I like silicon lube in that area, water based just doesnt cut it. Feels harsh where as silicon slides yummily.
My next purchase I think is going to be one of these…,

The girly has a vibrator from this company and swears by it. It is a Lelo Billy, their male vibrator. Built well so it will last which means a lot to this consumer.
And that is about it for sex toys for me. We did get a vibrating cock-ring thrown into a purchase a while ago but it was a waste of time and sits in the drawer with the other shite we have accumulated over time.
Keep it simple, buy quality and have fun.
AES