The S Word…Stands For Shite?

Sam Brett, columnist for the Australian Fairfax papers produces a video blog every week and I have to say having watched two or three now that it is the most unbalanced piece of shite that I have viewed in a long time.

Just so we are on the same page, I have checked out a lot of blogs since starting this little male sex rant.

Have a look for yourself if you don’t believe me;

Face facts Sam, most men check out porn and probably quite a lot do so because women walk around with their fucking heads in the clouds in regards to the male sex drive with the exception of when they want to have a baby.

This shit has got to stop and soon. Can we possibly just try to acknowledge that men generally want more sex than women do and if a ratio that kept both genders happy could be achieved what are the consequences for women?

1. Healthier happier Men and Women all over the world.

2. The pornography industry might actually decrease.

3. Stronger relationships potentially.

4. We might see sexual harassment and assaults potentially drop in number?

5. Prostitution might actually die off from a lack of clientele.

This is a fucking no-brainer women. Cant you see this?

It’s a win-win situation. You give a little you get a whole lot more in return.

What a waste of airtime shit like this is. It’s 2011 if you hadn’t noticed Sam?

Angry AES has now left the building.

p.s. I recommend that you try a few of the links on my page as there is some really interesting people blogging about sex whom are genuinely trying to move us forward as a society.

I am really proud of what I write….

Just wanted to gab on a bit for my 70 ish post about the fact that I am pretty darn proud of all the stuff I have written and linked to on this blog.
I got my first comment the other day and it was a positive one which made me so happy.

I am not much of a real writer and I swear too much anyway so there isn’t any chance that I will ever be popular, but hey, that wasn’t the reason I started this.  I wanted this to be an outlet for the frustration I feel in regards to sex generally and my experience with sex as a male.  The other side of the coin was that I really wanted to write in the hope that I might help even one person make a better decision and if I ever get feedback about that I will be over the bloody moon!

As to where this is going I still don’t really know and hey, y’now I don’t really care because with the crazy world we live in there is always going to be something to crap on about.
Anyway, see you next weekend when I sit down to write.


Sex is loco…

This morning I got over my issues with women temporarily and let my hand drift down to the girly’s mid-section and after a little while it was on for young and old.
It was nice to be with her although it really wasn’t intimate, it was just sex.

I had real trouble reaching orgasm as I do and had to masturbate for quite a while above her to come. She patiently put up with me caressing my scrotum for a good 10 minutes until I could orgasm which shit me up the wall after primarily because I couldn’t come but also because I have been forced into this lifestyle which sees me having to initiate sex pretty much always (98% of the time) and if I don’t then all as I have is masturbation and when I do that too much I cant come when I am with a woman so really I cant win.

This is primarily why I am angry with women, and don’t read this and put the blame on me because I am just a shy-ish regular guy with a high sex drive that has never even come close to reaching a sexual potential.  I have certainly tried to be with many women but they seem so picky and finicky about whom they share their bed with and rightly so I guess but why was I put on this earth with seminal vessels that fill so quickly and seem so potent?

I sometimes wonder how many other men are out there in the world like me. I am sure there is a few and that is why porn amongst men is so prevalent as is the use of prostitution.

What is the solution? Easier said than done I guess but a start would be to see women pay some more attention to the male sex drive just as we pay attention to your beauty and ability to grow and bear a child.  An even street in that respect would be a great start I think and might help alleviate at least some of the issues between the sexes.

Will that ever happen though? I think not because women aren’t really interested in sex like men are. At least that has been my experience anyway. I read a blog the other day written by a woman basically stating that women are only really interested in sex primarily as a reason to procreate. In the majority that is their sole motivation supposedly?

I guess I already knew this but had put it out of my mind instead choosing to remain optimistic about my sexual potential…but that never arrived and now I am 40 and have had sex once in 6 months…no wonder a bloke is down!

So where do men go now?  Well, if you believe the sex blogosphere then men are retreating to online porn more and more (supposedly online porn generates an income of $3000 a second!) and as a result are losing our maleness with less and less hookup’s and interaction between the sexes.  People like those mentioned in my blog such as Cindy Gallop and Phillip Zimbardo are just two of many that I have spent time with since starting this blog about sex that state that there is a revolution happening amongst men and hey, this is only going to affect females primarily so something needs to be done pronto.  But will it?

Apologies for being the pessimist but nothing will change I think.  Women will keep sailing along with their heads in the clouds as the percentage of available sperm drops slowly (I read that they Y chromosome is shrinking and looks like disappearing altogether some day?) and I think that in 15 years or so from now an even larger percentage of women might choose to be same sex parents with pregnancy provided by donated/frozen sperm which I think is going to be the next big thing (guys dropping their loads in liquid nitrogen for cash).  Traditional marriages and the nuclear family will always be around but watch this space for the numbers of those seeking this type of relationship to drop a little more definitely over time.  The remainder of society will be single men and women living alone with porn/vibrators and cats and dogs etc for company or living at home still.

Its a bleak picture I know but I really cant see sexual equality in its current form really bringing anything for men except loneliness.  Maybe men had their time back in the day and that which is coming is the full circle finally coming to rest?

Maybe women are the future and males will be genetically engineered in a laboratory in the future, built to specification?

I have to end this shitty little post with some optimism though.  Imagine a world where women could access a drug that would boost their sex drive by a moderate amount that was completely safe and did not have any major side effects.  Imagine men and the reaction they would have to women seeking more regular sex.  Imagine the negative effect on brothels and prostitution, porn and stripping in clubs that would hopefully go under.  Imagine women standing equal with men seeking sexual partners as men have for so long.  That is the world I would love to see…but I am a dreamer, always have been and will drop of the perch that way.

So yes, interesting times lie ahead in regards to sex and I know that this discussion is far from complete in my mind.  What do you think?


The demise of guys…

This is serious stuff. I can see it happening as can people like Cindy Gallop and numerous other sex bloggers.
No one seems to care though and I wonder where it will stop and what will be the outcomes. Will it mean a lower population because men are obsessed with porn stereotypes and thus cant be with a woman and make love or will it go another way all together?

It is certainly an interesting time for the male of the species.


Warren Jeffs update…

I dont know why I am wasting my time on this freak but I am so here goes…
Update on his trial see’s him looking at life in prison…Yay!

What about the young girls that were in his polygamist harem though?
How are they going to fare now that the world has opened up their weird little community?

This is why cults are just plain fucked in the head. Religion is fucked in the head as far as I am concerned too!
I believe in Mother Nature as my god and that is whom I pray too. I respect her and all that she has gifted this planet with and I try to look after as much as I can so future generations might see what I have seen and loved.

But, I digress. This is my last post on Jeffs. Here’s to him rotting away in prison with a bum buddy or ten who violate him just as he has violated so many young girls that we will probably never hear about.