I found this on Medium this morning as written by Lisa Martens.
It’s both a great read and one chock full of “lolz”. But I think there’s also a lesson in the laughs for those that are paying attention.
“I’m Finally Super Horny…& Men Are Stressed.” by Lisa Martens https://link.medium.com/ZKaM3iHcvab
For me it highlights the change that is bearing down on us like a freight train, but I will have more to say on this soon.
As always, a quick disclaimer. I have my own Medium subscription to read these as will you.
It’s a great site that you will get so much out of for so little, with this link above being just one example of the great writing available.
Stay safe in these crazy times,
I have written about this subject previously and still support it highly.
For when it comes to the erotic, diversity must rule in my very humble opinion.
Lillian nails it with this article, which, yes, is another Medium article that I am riding coat-tail on, but hey, if it’s good writing or a subject I value, it should be up in lights I feel.
“The Magic of Audio Porn” by Lillian Grover https://link.medium.com/EE4GXgXRN8
Anyhoo, I hope you get something from this remembering that Medium is a paid site unlike my little blog here.
I found this in Guardian Australia this morning and whilst short & sweet, highlights for me why I am a fan of ethical non-monogamy and polyamory.
My life in sex: the ethical non-monogamist https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/sep/11/my-life-in-sex-the-ethical-non-monogamist?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_WordPress
Its a no-brainer really and whilst it seems hard on the surface, if the initial communication rules are established and abided by then I think its fair to say the pay-off’s, not unlike capital interest, are better for all parties.
I hope this becomes a reality for more people because it clearly fits with a society that values both genders equally for their contribution.
Howard Jones – All I Want
At the link below Claire Divino has written a piece a lot of you will identify with and relate to as I did.
I have been trying to put paragraphs together like this for years now but in the finest traditions of writing, the words only come when they want to.
“We Are NOT Monogamous by Nature” by Claire Divino https://link.medium.com/4PKz5s2oz9
From my point of view, this is a great lead into a post that I have written which I will drop IDC.
But if reading this whets your whistle, please head over to Medium and soak a while in this and so many other posts of beauty written by people who, like I do, care about the big picture.
Remember though, Medium is a paid site so you will need a sub if you want to indulge regularly like I do.
A quick and easy to read article about Paul Dalgarno’s new book.
If you are interested in Polyamory, this article will be a good read.
‘Do you get jealous?’: the six questions I always get asked about being polyamorous https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/sep/02/do-you-get-jealous-the-six-questions-i-always-get-asked-about-being-polyamorous
Am a bit off my game of late. COVID-19 has it well and truly engaged it in self-preservation mode.
Came across this tonight though and dug it.
It’s a well written piece on the beauty that is the written word in the erotic form.
I am all for expanding ones mind when it comes to our sexual selves.
And I clearly am a fan of all the wonderful women on Medium who are filling this space with their beautiful writing on all manner of subjects inside the space that is our human sexuality.
So please, click the link and have a read. If you dig this as I did please come back and comment.
Note: Medium is a paid site and I have my own subscription to read these stories.
“Why Erotica Will Free Your Mind” by Amber Cezanne https://link.medium.com/EdAYFIdR98
Once again the talented writers on Medium have come through for me.
This article made me think (and is the main reason I keep visiting this site) and I cant wait until I can find a willing partner to explore this largely ignored side of our sexuality with.
“The Power of Scent & Smell During Sex” by Joe Duncan https://link.medium.com/FPi1HXhK77
Reading this, I also remember reading something a while ago, maybe it was in Medium or elsewhere that discussed blindfolds during sex such that you both have to take your time and work together during your naked dance with each other.
I think it would awesome to grab a nice room and after a very brief familiarisation, put on blindfolds and then use only the powers of touch & smell to bring each other pleasure.
Anyway, back to reality laddie!
This article popped up on my Medium feed today and I am glad it did.
“What Makes a Woman Great in Bed?” by Kim Petersen https://link.medium.com/81FFRttR17
Kim has written a great article here.
What did I like about it you may be asking?
I liked that she spoke truths about women which are some that when added with other concerns can over floweth thine relationship cup.
And dont get me wrong I clearly get that women are only half of the equation. Men certainly contribute their own special blend of shite that also adds fuel to the fires that breakout in relationships, some of which can be extinguished, and other’s not.
Please have a look noting that Medium is a paid subscription.
Thus you will need to contribute to read articles like this and many others that I have found brilliant.
Adriana M has given those who click through on this link, some beautiful & sexy female written erotica.
As I have said few times now, the women on Medium are dishing it up hot & spicy and they are all fine reads.
“The Intern” by Adriana M https://link.medium.com/YP7Yu3lZK7
Please do yourself a favour and click this concise and well written piece that will have you in arousal a few paragraphs in.
Note: Medium is a paid site. I have a subsription which enables me to share these with you and you will need one too to access the work. I highly recommend it.
Yours in sweet, sweet heat.
If this doesnt say to you in 2020 that we, after all the progress over the last 40 years, have a ways to travel yet on equality, then I’m sorry…,
You havent been paying attention.
I am not sure what to think of this one?
Oddly I kept reading it even though I was a little repulsed and as I write this I am still a little lost for words.
That is why I am going to exit stage left at this point in proceedings and leave you to make your own minds up.
“Rape Me Between Eleven and Midnight” by Amelia Devereaux https://link.medium.com/nmYbJ4bin7
Nirvana, Rape Me, Live
If you have checked out any of my previous posts of late, you will surely sense a theme. Women writing about sexuality on Medium.
For me it’s fresh. I have read a little before but this is the first time that it’s been so widely available.
It’s so good to read other opinions when 5 or more years ago I was struggling to find said content to balance this blog out.
Seriously, please do yourself a favour and head over there.
You will grow a few neurons and more than likely find something that will bring forth the wondrous warmth of arousal.
What more can you ask?
Medium is a paid site so you can’t read it without subscribing. I would contend though, that the few bucks it will cost you to subscribe to read genius like this is very much worth it.
p.s. I am not paid or do in anyway receive anything for these plugs.
It’s that bloody good!
I absolutely loved reading this.
Beth tells a great and wonderfully sexy story about two women flirting and then fucking each other.
“Bedding The Coffee Shop Girl” by Beth Singleton https://link.medium.com/OxBGnkbRQ6
I love good erotica like this and I hope you will enjoy it also.
Medium is a paid site so you can’t read this without joining. I would contend though that the few bucks it will cost you to subscribe to read genius like this is very much worth it.
And about bloody time…
Hi all BTW,
For the longest time I have thought that more needs to be done in this area of human sexuality.
I mean, surely you have seen the parade of men and a few women over the past decade whom have had their lives and careers ruined after being found GUILTY of sexual harassment?
And if you joined the dots at that time, did you talk about this epidemic with anyone?
I am guessing, probs not?
It’s a male thing mostly and men mostly don’t talk about their sexuality to other men.
And women don’t talk to men etc. etc.
And around we go again. Line em up!
What Stephen offers here is the solution.
And it’s pretty simple and if we could collectively pull our heads out of our arses, we might be able to pull together pretty quickly and solve this one so men & women could put this issue that refuses to die behind them.
But we won’t. Not for a long while anyway for a number of reasons I won’t bore you with, suffice to say there is a solution and it starts when you read this post at the link.
Medium is a paid site so you can’t read this without joining but as I have mentioned a number of times, it will be worth a few bucks just to read genius like this.
“As A Sex Therapist, I Can Tell You You’re Asking The Wrong Question About Sexual Harassment” by Steven Ing https://link.medium.com/jjw07gXNy6
Matilda is yet another of the many talented female writers on Medium breaking human sexuality into chewable chunks of goodness.
As I have mentioned previously, it will cost you to sup from the Medium well, but I would contend it’s a wise investment in cortex development.
This one’s another gem. If you have wondered what all the fuss is about here tis.
“What Actually is Pegging?” by Matilda Swinney https://link.medium.com/MF1BJZinw6